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x-plicity - 2006-07-26 16:02:03
"So, (insert hotties name here)are we becoming exclusive or is this just for fun?" That always works right? *grin* Just be blunt and honest. It's surprising how charming that is.
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Zuzu - 2006-07-26 16:58:36
Remind me again, how long as you been seeing him now? I want to encourage you NOT to be blunt and not to push the issue - I think it sends a message re: a lack of confidence - even if one is insecure, a lack of confidence can be a turn off. (I've found myself saying this so many times to friends in budding relationships over the past few days...) I'd contend that you haven't spent enough time with him for YOU to even assess if you want this to be serious and I sort of guess that you're wanting to push this issue because of the idea of something and not necessarily because you know that THIS is the something that matches that ideal? I could be way off base.. but if he were absolutely the guy you know was good enough for you, that YOU wanted, would you even be having to ask this question. I contend that you're not sure yet... time to continue to let sleeping dogs lay while you take more time to figure it out. My two cents. - Zu
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flying-kiwi - 2006-07-26 19:40:46
I'm with Zuzu on this, partly becasue of the confidence issue and partly because it's not like you've been seeing him that long really and you might end up looking a bit possessive. But then, I'm not right there and journals tend to limit how a reader can interprret situations in the writer's life. You'll do whatever suits you in the end :o)
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